There’s a lot of attraction that exists on the physical plane, through the eyes, but it goes way beyond that.  Personally, I can be attracted to a movement, a texture, a shape, style, a voice, a sense of peace, confidence — small parts of a much bigger whole.  It’s not as shallow as many would assume and it is often exactly as shallow as it sounds.  It’s more conundrum rather than conflict.  A complicated tangle in my human experience.